To Strengthen & Be Strengthened

Romans 1:10–12 – Longing for Fellowship and Mutual Encouragement

Paul’s affection for the Roman Christians doesn’t stop with prayer. He longs to see them in person. This longing isn’t just a personal desire—it’s a pastoral one. Paul wants to strengthen the Roman Christians and be strengthened by them in return.

In Romans 1:10–12, Paul explains his desire to visit Rome. Though he hasn’t yet succeeded, his words reveal his heart for fellowship and mutual encouragement.

The Longing to Visit Rome

Paul writes: “Always in my prayers, asking that somehow by God’s will I may now at last succeed in coming to you” (Romans 1:10).

It’s clear that Paul has been praying and striving to visit Rome for a long time. His phrase “at last” suggests years of waiting and frustration.

This experience is one many of us can relate to. How often have we prayed for something only to face delays or unexpected answers? Paul reminds us that God’s timing is perfect, even when it doesn’t align with our own plans.

One commentator observes, “Neither Paul’s prayers nor ours, even our most noble, are always answered in ways that seem best to us.” Paul’s persistence in prayer teaches us to trust God’s will, even when the answers are unclear.

The Purpose of Paul’s Visit

Why does Paul want to visit Rome? He tells us: “For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to strengthen you, that is, that we may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith, both yours and mine” (Romans 1:11–12).

Paul’s goal is twofold: to strengthen the Roman Christians and to be strengthened by them. This mutual encouragement is at the heart of Christian fellowship.

We don’t know the specifics of the “spiritual gift” Paul mentions. But we do know this: Paul recognizes that both he and the Romans have something to offer each other. He wants to minister to them, but he also expects to be ministered to by them.

Life Together

Paul’s words remind us of the power of Christian fellowship. Though phone calls and texts are helpful, nothing compares to being together in person. When believers gather, the Holy Spirit works in unique ways, strengthening and encouraging us through our shared faith.

Hebrews 10:24–25 echoes this truth: “Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

Life as a Christian is better together. When we meet, share, and worship, we experience the joy of mutual encouragement in Christ.

Conclusion

Paul’s desire to visit Rome challenges us to prioritize relationships with other believers. Whether it’s attending church, meeting in small groups, or simply reaching out to a friend, we should seek opportunities to strengthen and be strengthened by others.

This week, let’s follow Paul’s example by investing in our Christian community. Reach out to someone you haven’t seen in a while. Offer a word of encouragement. And remember that through these relationships, God is at work to strengthen us all.

Who can you encourage this week? How can you create opportunities for mutual strengthening in your Christian walk?